Prompt: Often we can learn a lot about a character
through his relationship with another character or characters. Discuss a
relationship you see between two characters in Gilead and what that relationship tells you about the characters
and the novel as a whole.
A
little boy wishes for nothing more than to be like his father when he grows up.
Sometimes, this wish stems from a great wealth of respect, and other times
because a father is a young boy’s first male role model. Reverend John Ames of Gilead, by Marilynne Robinson, relates
to his father with a similar mixture of respect and awe. His strong
relationship with his father affects both his development as a character, and
eventually, his relationship with his own son. The development of this
father-son relationship throughout the novel not only characterizes Reverend
Ames, but provides the background to his purpose for writing this letter of his
life history: to build a relationship with his own son, even after he passes
away.
The
most visible connections relating Reverend Ames to his father are the similarities
between the two men. Mutual respect is created between Reverend Ames and his
father because both are ministers. They live by the same scriptures and
principles. Reverend Ames feels that religion defined a large portion of his
father’s life. By sharing the same commitment to spreading God’s word, John and
his father are united by common beliefs and goals. The magnitude of the effect
of religion on both of their lies is evidenced by the impact of the ministry on
their basic personalities and characters. When traveling in the West together,
strangers immediately recognize Reverend Ames’ father as a preacher. He
recalls, “And they could tell he was a preacher, rough-looking as we were a few
days into our desert wanderings, as he called them. […] He was interested that
they knew, and wondered a good deal what it was that gave him away” (Robinson
16). Sentences later, he thinks, “I have had the same experience many times,
and I have wondered about it, too” (16). Whatever special quality the men
share, it immediately identifies them, creating a common link between them.
Additionally, Reverend Ames and his father both share the name John Ames. This
furthers the similarities between father and son, both literally and
symbolically. Simply, they have the same name, but the author seems to suggest
that they were nearly the same person in respect to their ideals. Because
Reverend Ames and his father share their passion for religion, it becomes
apparent that their father-son relationship is so strong because they are
similar in multiple respects.
Though
Reverend Ames and his father share the same profession and name, he
contemplates the subtle differences between their methods of preaching. One
aspect he focuses on is the way ministers write their sermons. He recalls that
his father always preached from his notes, whereas he must write his own
sermons down completely. Reverend Ames sees his father’s notes and his own
sermons as works that could have a future impact. Yet, his father’s sermons can
never be relived or repeated because they were never completely recorded. The
concept of being able to preserve a sermon forever fascinates Reverend Ames.
Perhaps his father’s way of only partially recording his sermons compels him to
save every sermon he preaches, so his wife and son may have access to them
after he passes away. This contemplation of the method in which his father
recorded his sermons is indicative of the way Reverend Ames views his father’s sermons
as a part of the man and father he was. For that reason, Reverend Ames is
meticulous about recording his own sermons verbatim so they can be saved for
his son.
Throughout
his letter, Reverend Ames also returns frequently to positive memories he has
of his father. One of his oldest, most sacred memories of his father is when
his father fed him a biscuit from his hand during a gathering to repair the
church. The act was simple, but Reverend Ames remembers it as if his father was
giving him communion straight from his hand. At that moment, he felt blessed by
his father and closer to him than before. For this reason, Reverend Ames feeds
his own son communion from his hand as a little boy, even though he is too
young to have communion or remember the occasion. For Reverend Ames, the situation
was a treasured moment with his father, and he wants his son to have the same
opportunity. He also often discusses the trip he took with his father as a boy
to find his grandfather’s grave in the wilderness. He recounts the night they
stood at the grave, with the rising moon and setting sun creating a straight
line on the horizon, with the grave and the two men at the center of it. Later,
his father told him that everyone observed the same alignment. Looking back at
that situation, Reverend Ames says, “Later I realized my father would have
meant that the sun and moon aligned themselves as they did with no special
reference to the two of us. He never encouraged any talk about visions or
miracles, except the ones in the Bible” (48). Reverend Ames seems disappointed
by his father’s rejection of the possibility of a miracle, yet at the same
time, his religious views are shaped by his father. Now, as an adult and a
preacher, Reverend Ames still references his father’s teachings when he
considers the possibility of a vision or miracle, showing the lasting impact
his father’s teaching has had on him. Reverend Ames wants his own son to learn
from his religious teachings as well, just as his father taught him.
Although
he fully respects and loves his father, Reverend Ames also harbors conflicting
feelings about his father’s relationship with his grandfather. His father hated
his own father for his role in the Civil War. The man often wore his bloody war
shirts and his pistol during church services, brandishing them as proof of God’s
will in the war. These antics enraged Reverend Ames’s father even after he man
had died, leading him to destroy the relics, without regard to respect for the
dead. Reverend Ames feels that his father was hiding the “guilt” of his
grandfather, saying, “I had so much respect for my father. I felt certain that
he should hide the guilt of his father, and that I should also hide the guilt
of mine” (85). This shows how although Reverend Ames believes his father had
done something wrong in his hatred of his own father, he wanted to respect and to
protect him. Reverend Ames does not want his son to have to be responsible for
any of his own guilt, and uses this recollection of how he felt about his
father’s disrespect to his grandfather as an example of what he has learned
about father-son relationships.
The
progression of the relationship between Reverend Ames and his father shows much
about the nature of each of the men. The development of their relationship
shows how Reverend Ames’s father was a man who held love for his son, as well
as the desire to teach him morals and religion. This is evidenced in the gentle
way he fed young Reverend Ames from his hand, and how he revealed the guilt of
his father to him so he might not repeat similar sins. The relationship also
demonstrates how much respect Reverend Ames has for his father. He is very conscious
of the relationship between father and son, constantly analyzing it. He
respected his father’s profession and his beliefs, showing how his world views
derive directly from his father’s teachings. In the context of the novel, the
relationship between Reverend Ames and his father shows how impressionable a
child is, receiving all of their teachings from their parents. Whether the
teaching is good or bad, the child will be affected by it forever. Because
Reverend Ames will die before he has the opportunity to teach his own son the
lessons taught to him by his father, it is necessary that he records his
teachings in the letter. In this way, the relationship between Reverend Ames and
his father shows how each man’s character was shaped by his father, and demonstrates
the importance of passing knowledge from one generation to the next.
In
Reverend Ames’s case, he strives to be like his father not because he is the
only male he knows well, but because he values his teachings so much. From his
father, he learned the importance of passing religious traditions to his own
son, as well as how to protect his son from holding his guilt. This beautiful
relationship validates Reverend Ames’s efforts, because though he will not be
alive to teach his son, his wisdom can live on in the words of his letter.